The Shlooby Kitten version of “he loves me, he loves me not”
A woman’s options aren’t limited to just choosing someone to be with.
A woman isn’t required to be with anyone.
A woman is 100% entitled to be alone if her available options for dating would not increase her net happiness.
So, no. No one is “incomplete” because they are single. When women (or anyone) complains about lack of dating options, they are complaining about two things: 1) that so many people expect them to be pursuing relationships, and 2) that the options for this “required” pursuit are all jerky people, one way or another.
If flaws X, Y, and Z happen to be dealbreakers for a person, then they are not required to try to overlook those flaws in order to see just how super-great that person claims to be.
So there you go. If your options are A) date a jerk who will make your life nominally (or greatly) more miserable or B) be alone, why should you pick A over B?
SPINSTAH 4 LYFE, YO.